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The Benefits of Pain



Pain sucks, but it’s a REMARKABLE source of wisdom.


Every great leader understands that growth often comes packaged with its share of pain.


But what if we shift our perspective and start to view pain not as an obstacle but as a form of pruning?


Consider the words of John 15:2 (NIV): "He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful."


Pain, like pruning, isn't meant to destroy us.


Rather, it's designed to shape us, refine us, and prepare us for even greater growth.


Legendary speaker and bestselling author Dean Graziosi beautifully encapsulates this idea: "Pain is the gateway to progress."


Let me share a story that brings this concept to life.


One of my clients, a successful tech founder, was facing a significant setback. His company's latest product launch had failed to meet expectations, leading to financial losses and a demoralized team.


He was in pain, questioning his capabilities as a leader.


But instead of succumbing to the pain, he chose to see it as an opportunity for pruning. He embraced the challenge, learned from his mistakes, and took steps to improve.


He used the experience to prune away ineffective strategies, strengthen his leadership, and build a stronger, more resilient team. His company rebounded, emerging stronger and more successful than before.


As you navigate your journey as a high-level leader, I invite you to reflect on these questions:

  1. How can you reframe the painful experiences in your leadership journey as opportunities for pruning and growth?

  2. What parts of your leadership style or business strategy might need pruning to bear more fruit?

Remember, pruning may be painful, but it's essential for growth.


Embrace the pain, see it as an opportunity for pruning, and watch as you and your business flourish to new heights.


To your growth and success,



*This past week I started playing around with an A.I. tool. I’ve messed with quite a few but this one really stuck out to me. If you have trouble journaling, or like trying new things, check out https://heypi.com/talk (It’s Free). Just a cool thing I found and thought of you.


*If you are new and interested in my process, and coaching, check out this document. (Updated 4/22/23)


Plus, whenever you are ready - here are 5 FREE ways you can grow in spirit, soul, mind, and body.



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